"Nous protégeons ceux qui ne peuvent pas se protéger eux mêmes"

Yo, I'm Chloë, cis girl, age 21, INFP, feminist, queer(of the bi variety), artist, writer.

My blog is mostly teen wolf and supernatural, which i complain about a lot. You can find other fandoms i blog about on my tags page.

Occasionally I reblog from stuff i havent seen yet so i can remind myself to watch it.

Currently watching: The X-Files, How to Get Away with Murder, and the Mentalist.

I'm proud of us...

Maybe you should just push that button.

posted 4 hours ago on 21 Oct 14 · via newtalby · 882 ♫ (source)
the tags: #chuck  #tmr  #<3  



Laurel. Speak up more. I like your ideas.

posted 4 hours ago on 21 Oct 14 · via newtalby · 1801 ♫ (source)
the tags: #laurel castillo  #my love  #how to get away with murder  



Renly had been a boy of eight when Robert won the throne, but he had grown into a man so like his brother that Ned found it disconcerting. Whenever he saw him, it was as if the years had slipped away and Robert stood before him, fresh from his victory on the Trident.

posted 4 hours ago on 21 Oct 14 · via newtalby · 367 ♫ (source)
the tags: #game of thrones  



magicalnaturetour:

Photos by tessa

posted 9 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via newtalby · 35885 ♫ (source)
the tags: #KITTY TAG  



posted 9 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via newtalby · 86023 ♫ (source)
the tags: #M E  



posted 9 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via jessawarriorprincess · 24228 ♫ (source)
the tags: #be my friend pls  #pacrim  #mako mori  



posted 9 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via beyondsophistication · 8401 ♫ (source)
the tags: #faking it  #heyo this girl is cute go for it amy  



sasukeapologist:

i used to be so weirded out by the fact that everyone takes notes in pen in college because that seems so permanent right, what if you mess up a word, youll have to scribble it out and live with ugly notes

now that i write in pen i realize that i no longer have the strength of will to push down a pencil hard enough to make legible marks. im literally too dead inside to use a pencil. pen is the only way to make proof of my existence at this point 

posted 9 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via knot-all-men · 41979 ♫ (source)
the tags: #omg  #about me  



static-nonsense:

[text: So your friend has a chronic illness or disability…]
petticoatruler:

don’t
expect them to be able to go out on a whim
expect them to have lives just like yours
expect them to always be available
demand details of their illness that they haven’t volunteered, ask them nicely and don’t badger
offer help or assistance to make yourself feel like a better person
act as though the disease is catching, repugnant, or disgusting
challenge them to do things they have already told you were impossible
baby them or treat them as though they’re less competent mentally
tell other people about their illness(es)
suggest cures/treatments/holistic practices (since, you know, they probably have already tried it)
Try to relate their problem to your experience - your sprained ankle is nothing like chronic pain, your bout with stomach flu is nothing like IBS, your inability to focus before coffee is nothing like the mental fog that comes with illnesses like fibromyalgia or MS
ever, ever, ever accuse them of faking. ever.
do
understand that some chronic illnesses have good days and bad days, and that there’s no way to predict what’ll happen
be supportive and understand their limitations
ask about dietary or physical restrictions if you are making plans with them
ask about anything that might make things worse for them, and take it into account
tell them that if they need to tell you they can’t do something that you won’t be angry at them for not being able to, and don’t be passive-aggressive about it
remember that they are a person, not an illness
listen to them, ask them questions if you don’t understand something, and remember what they say
I’m sure I’m forgetting something, but this seems like a decent start. Please add your own.

static-nonsense:

[text: So your friend has a chronic illness or disability…]

petticoatruler:

don’t

  • expect them to be able to go out on a whim
  • expect them to have lives just like yours
  • expect them to always be available
  • demand details of their illness that they haven’t volunteered, ask them nicely and don’t badger
  • offer help or assistance to make yourself feel like a better person
  • act as though the disease is catching, repugnant, or disgusting
  • challenge them to do things they have already told you were impossible
  • baby them or treat them as though they’re less competent mentally
  • tell other people about their illness(es)
  • suggest cures/treatments/holistic practices (since, you know, they probably have already tried it)
  • Try to relate their problem to your experience - your sprained ankle is nothing like chronic pain, your bout with stomach flu is nothing like IBS, your inability to focus before coffee is nothing like the mental fog that comes with illnesses like fibromyalgia or MS
  • ever, ever, ever accuse them of faking. ever.

do

  • understand that some chronic illnesses have good days and bad days, and that there’s no way to predict what’ll happen
  • be supportive and understand their limitations
  • ask about dietary or physical restrictions if you are making plans with them
  • ask about anything that might make things worse for them, and take it into account
  • tell them that if they need to tell you they can’t do something that you won’t be angry at them for not being able to, and don’t be passive-aggressive about it
  • remember that they are a person, not an illness
  • listen to them, ask them questions if you don’t understand something, and remember what they say

I’m sure I’m forgetting something, but this seems like a decent start. Please add your own.

posted 10 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via mousebitten · 19894 ♫
the tags: #boost  #chronic illness  



[bonus] Simon’s tiny smile at Kieren coming to his rescue

posted 10 hours ago on 20 Oct 14 · via queergladers · 1833 ♫ (source)
the tags: #in the flesh  #ilu both  



RFS